Wednesday. Some refer to this day as "Hump Day." Hump day has many meanings for many people, and for the players of the world. Hump Day is exactly that. This is the day reserved for the follow up meeting from the weekend.
You may find that you will receive a text on Hump Day eve. If so, this is the set up for the Hump Day rendezvous. Depending on what you want from this encounter, text carefully.
10:30pm - Your phone rings/vibrates on your bedside table, you're excited at the prospect. You look at your screen and find a favorable text message from the male entertainment you met on the weekend.
10:31 pm - You respond accomodating his request. The evening plays out better than you thought. How was it? What was it? Did you ever hear back from him again? Of course you did. Same time, same day the following week, and the following week after that, do you see the cyclical chain?
Lets have a sliding doors moment.
You may find that you will receive a text on Hump Day eve. If so, this is the set up for the Hump Day rendezvous. Depending on what you want from this encounter, text carefully.
10:30pm - Your phone rings/vibrates on your bedside table, you're excited at the prospect. You look at your screen and find a favorable text message from the male entertainment you met on the weekend.
10:31 pm - You respond accomodating his request. The evening plays out better than you thought. How was it? What was it? Did you ever hear back from him again? Of course you did. Same time, same day the following week, and the following week after that, do you see the cyclical chain?
Lets have a sliding doors moment.
10:30pm - Your phone rings/vibrates on your bedside table, you're excited at the prospect. You look at your screen and find a favorable text message from the male entertainment you met on the weekend.
11am - The following day, you respond to his text Via text: Sorry missed your text. Up late thinking about me were you? I'm flattered.
Mr.late night text will respond in one of two ways:
1. Now challenged, he will text you at an appropriate time. You have now been removed from his "BOOTY CALL" list. Congratulations, he's intrigued.
2. Silence. Late that evening he will attempt another late night text in the hope he can gain the upper hand. He will make out that he has been "sooooooooo busy" that he didnt have a chance to get back to you until now. May attempt phone sexting.
These first text message exchanges and the timing of them are imperative to the foundation of the type of relationship you want to pursue.
Now, let's get one thing straight. I'm all for the occasional, fuck it moment, I'll just roll with the punches, and if I can have some fun in the process... I deserve it. I get all that and you do deserve it. My text message opinions are reserved for those who are sick of the games and would like to be wined and dined before the...
Here are some Text guidelines and observations for you to look out for:
Day time texts: He's into you. He wants to know more about you, your day to day life and what makes you happy/sad.
Evening Texts: He has been thinking about you during the day but is not at the stage where he wants to get involved...yet. You can invite him into your world.
Night time (any time after 9:30pm: He wants sex and sex only. Respond if this is what you want...and only want. Very rare that these engagements go any further. I'm sorry to say, you don't have a magical vagina. Show me a swimsuit model and I'll show you a man who is sick of fucking her.
Next post I will delve into more detail about response times and suggestions on how to keep him on the hook.
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