No road is long with good company.

Good morning, good afternoon or good evening. Happy New Year and welcome to The Blog That Men Don’t Want Women To Read.

So what was your New Year’s resolution? Mine was this blog…and to make a commitment to YOU, dear reader. 

I am here to offer insight into the male psyche on dating and women as never written before. You will come to think of me as the gay male friend you always wanted but never had…except that I’m straight and I am going to tell you how it really is, without fluffing your pillows. I’ll leave that to your new man. 

 

Now I know there is a plethora of relationship and dating guides out there for women, but you’ll agree they are strangely incomplete. Some concentrate on certain areas of relationships but don’t delve deep enough into others, leaving you with a pleasant but unsatisfied feeling (most of you reading may know this feeling all too well). I’m here to stimulate you, to peak your curiosity, to make you see that YES WE CAN, YES I CAN! 

“Good guys" do exist; you just don’t know how to find us. I'll show you how. Contrary to some beliefs, not all men are bastards 

I will discuss men’s behaviour during the various stages of a relationship; what I like to refer to as the relationship arc. I'll provide you with information to help you avoid the treacherous pattern.

The angst-ridden pre-dating ritual;

the unpredictable mid-relationship rollercoaster;

 the never-saw-it-coming, yet oddly inevitable break up;

the emotionally,  physically and spiritually exhausting recovery;

and, with Kent Clark out of the picture, no hope of the Happily Ever After.

 

These are crazy times. What gentlemen once referred to as the courting period, players now refer to as The Game. I’ll give you tips on how to scope out and avoid the false charisma, empty charm and arrogance of the “true player”.  You will rediscover the power of the vagina. Learn to use it to your advantage. Ladies, it’s time to get liberated.

*Tip: The more you make us wait, the longer we will date. FACT!

This is a forum for open discussion, so please feel free to post questions and comments. You can do so anonymously.  I will endeavor to respond to each one with my honest opinion. Unlike the minutemen you may have experienced in the past, I won’t leave you disappointed.

Here’s a line from Jerry McGuire that I think best sums up my philosophy (BTW, if you haven’t seen this film, make it a priority. It’s a great movie to watch with or without your partner. It was also Tom Cruise before he messed up Oprah’s couch):

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And remember, in a big, bad world, it pays to be good.

Much love in the pursuit of life,