I'd like to reiterate a statistic
that I have mentioned in a previous post: We check our "smartphone"
an average of 150 times a day.
150 times!
Now, Let's say most of us sleep at
least 8 hours of a night, that leaves you with 16 hours of the day to play with
your device (hopefully most of you have some alternative form of vibrating
device to play with). We can safely say that we check our
"smartphone" almost every 6 minutes!
The reason I have reiterated this
statistic is simply because I am inundated with a similar question from many of
you.
Why does he take so long to reply to my text, email or phone call? Most
of you live in hope that he hasn't seen the message yet, you keep telling
yourselves, "oh,he must be busy"...he's not.
He's seen your message
and he's doing one of a few things:
Smiling and sharing your message, possibly gloating to
himself or his friends or thinking about how should he respond, as most men do not
have a way with words.
However, the most likely reason there is no message tone or vibrating reverberation from your "Smartphone" is simply
because, he is NOT FUCKING INTERESTED!
I apologise for my bluntness,
however I feel it's required in this instance, for many of you live in hope,
hope that he is not like the rest of us and doesn't check his
"smartphone" as often as the next person. Sadly, your friends may also support your illogical frame of mind and agree with you.
Which
brings me to my next point. Busy: If that's the response he's coughing up
because it's taken him 6 hours to respond, Its a lie. Its simply to buy time, blow you off. That so called "time" is bought so he can have
space, think and respond to the messages he feels require his attention. If you
haven't heard back in 24 hours, then you don't have his attention nor should
you want it. Move on. Again, He's not fucking interested.
I get it, you all hate the games.
Why can't he just tell you if he's interested or not. This is not how men think, we are
constantly on the lookout for something better. Better job, better house,
better car...better female companion. There is method to his madness as there
should be to yours. Trust in what I'm about to tell you, these small phrases will keep most men on the hook and you may even hang onto him, if
he's someone you really want. (This will have to be my next post - I'm busy)
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Till the next time you have the
pleasure of receiving me in your inbox.
