HUMP DAY (the day before)

Wednesday. Some refer to this day as "Hump Day." Hump day has many meanings for many people, and for the players of the world. Hump Day is exactly that. This is the day reserved for the follow up meeting from the weekend.

You may find that you will receive a text on Hump Day eve. If so, this is the set up for the Hump Day rendezvous. Depending on what you want from this encounter, text carefully.

10:30pm -  Your phone rings/vibrates on your bedside table, you're excited at the prospect. You look at your screen and find a favorable text message from the male entertainment you met on the weekend.
10:31 pm - You respond accomodating his request. The evening plays out better than you thought. How was it? What was it? Did you ever hear back from him again? Of course you did. Same time, same day the following week, and the following week after that, do you see the cyclical chain?

Lets have a sliding doors moment. 

10:30pm - Your phone rings/vibrates on your bedside table, you're excited at the prospect. You look at your screen and find a favorable text message from the male entertainment you met on the weekend.
11am - The following day, you respond to his text Via text: Sorry missed your text. Up late thinking about me were you? I'm flattered.

Mr.late night text will respond in one of two ways:

1. Now challenged, he will text you at an appropriate time. You have now been removed from his "BOOTY CALL" list. Congratulations, he's intrigued.

2. Silence. Late that evening he will attempt another late night text in the hope he can gain the upper hand. He will make out that he has been "sooooooooo busy" that he didnt have a chance to get back to you until now. May attempt phone sexting.

These first text message exchanges and the timing of them are imperative to the foundation of the type of relationship you want to pursue.

Now, let's get one thing straight. I'm all for the occasional, fuck it moment, I'll just roll with the punches, and if I can have some fun in the process... I deserve it. I get all that and you do deserve it. My text message opinions are reserved for those who are sick of the games and would like to be wined and dined before the...

Here are some Text guidelines and observations for you to look out for:

Day time texts: He's into you. He wants to know more about you, your day to day life and what makes you happy/sad.

Evening Texts: He has been thinking about you during the day but is not at the stage where he wants to get involved...yet. You can invite him into your world.

Night time (any time after 9:30pm: He wants sex and sex only. Respond if this is what you want...and only want. Very rare that these engagements go any further. I'm sorry to say, you don't have a magical vagina. Show me a swimsuit model and I'll show you a man who is sick of fucking her. 

Next post I will delve into more detail about response times and suggestions on how to keep him on the hook.

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Text him...text him not....text him?

How many times do you check your "Smartphone"?

I have had many of you ask me for an interpretation of various text messages from particular males in your life.

Text interpretation is almost impossible. You can show the same text message to three people and get three different opinions... You're going to decide which one suits your mood best, most likely the one that makes you smile, gives you hope. Hey, who wants to interpret things realistically? I do. 
I'll give you the best and worst case scenarios.

But before messages are interpreted, let's go through some do's and don'ts of texting the NEW men in your life. The when and when NOT'S... The time to wait and the time to text. All these moments lead to men wanting to continue the pursuit and men giving up the chase as they have a bigger fish on the hook.

If you have been approached and invited into the courting process, please begin with written communication. This is important.

This allows you to gauge whether or not you have just been hit on by a possible jack the ripper copycat, it  also allows you time with your thoughts before responding to certain questions.

It also tells the male, 'you want me, chase me.' Contrary to what some female dating enthusiasts will tell you, if he's into you then he's into you, all the game playing will not change this. From me to you, if you read this anywhere or are told this from someone; ask your girlfriends how many men are communicating with them now and how often are they cuddling up to their body pillow (vibrating feature optional)? 

Men love anything that involves a thrill and some competition, mentally or physically. Sure, give me your number, I'll call you, take you out and give you the greatest 4 minutes of your life, when I get you back home and use you for my pleasure. Will I call you again? Maybe, if I'm bored and I have no one else giving me anything, then why not. Want to keep me, make me chase, make me beg, offer me something different, show me I'm still a man and have to work for it. It makes it all the more rewarding for us and coincidentally you.

We can all agree that everyone, nowadays, has the ability to communicate in the palm of their hands. Most carry this device with them closely, most check it every 7 mins, keep this in mind when reading the following:

The first text is key. Like a first impression in a job interview, your response and the time it takes to respond will be judged. Text me back too quickly and I know that you have been waiting for me to text eagerly. Make me wait to long and I'll begin to think you are arrogant and my follow up texts will be short and sweet. I want to gain the ascendancy...I'm a man, remember.

Next post I will go through the response times depending on the time of initial text. This post will be one you will want to tell your friends about.


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